Why the Law of Attraction isn't working for you

Law of attraction not working for me

Date published: February 1 2021

So you've heard about the Law of Attraction, have tried it out, and are wondering why it's not working for you? Here’s why the Law of Attraction isn't working for you and what they don’t tell you

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Before we get to the answer, let’s go back to basics when it comes to the Law of Attraction. The LoA formula goes: thought (intention) + feeling (belief) = manifestation

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This means that an intention + a matching feeling will result in a successful manifestation.

Here’s an example of what it looks like when the thought and feeling are NOT matching:

Say you intend to have a romantic relationship (that’s your intention), however you’re feeling undeserving of an amazing relationship, like it would be too good to be true, like you can’t “have it all”, who are you to have that? You don’t have the relationship yet, and therefore you get more and more into the problem: “where am I going wrong?”, “why does nobody want to be with me?”, etc.

This would likely result in an unsuccessful manifestation. Why? Because the intention and feeling do not match. The intention says “loving relationship”, however the feeling says “alone, frustrated, and not good enough for love”.

And so what’s the result?

An incoherent/poor signal

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Because the feeling and the thought do not match up, the signal cannot get broadcasted effectively into the universe. The message is confused, contradictory and unclear.

Here’s what it looks like when the thought and feeling ARE aligned:

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In this instance, the person also has the intent to have a loving relationship, but instead feels as though anybody would be lucky to be around them, are confident in themselves, and love themselves. In this case, the thought and feeling DO match up - they signal the SAME thing, and are on the same “wavelength” (no pun intended haha) so to speak.

A metaphor that I like to use for an incoherent/poor signal VS a coherent signal goes like this:

If you were to feed water through a hose, it would flow easily and freely, right? Of course!

Now, if you were to try to feed mud through a hose, it would get jammed up and not come out at the other end, right?

That’s what’s happening when we broadcast an incoherent/poor signal. We have one part of the intention right, the intention for what we want (in the metaphor’s case, the “hose”), however, the feelings aren’t the right match (the “mud”), and therefore it’s not going anywhere. In other words, your message isn’t getting delivered! 

What needs to happen for a successful message delivery is a shift in feelings (turn that “mud” into “water”, it will flow through, and your message will get delivered!) In other words, become the energetic match to your desires.

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Hold the intention AND the feeling.

And so this brings me to the original question:

“Why is the Law of Attraction not working for me?”

Oftentimes, we get the first portion of the equation right. We set a target on what we want. We set the intention.

However, where the problem can lie is when we broadcast any sort of feeling that does not align with it (i.e. desperation, unworthiness, not having it yet, etc.)

And this takes up 50% of the equation (thought + feeling = manifestation)

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And so if you’re not seeing your manifestation in your life just yet, I would invite you to look at that second part of the equation - the “feelings”, the “beliefs”.

A prime example is if you’re on this page asking yourself that question! “Where is my manifestation?” (and trust me, I know it can be easier said than done, I catch myself doing this quite often!)

By asking “where is it?”, it’s saying “I don’t have it”.

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To conclude, once you’ve identified some possible contradicting beliefs, it’s important to start working on flipping them around so that they DO match up with your intention, or to simply let them go.

Recognize that they don’t serve you, and start living from the place of already having manifested your desires!

I hope you enjoyed today’s read, and wish you an amazing rest of your day!

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